We will listen to you.
We will believe you.
We will help you.

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Kerry Rape and Sexual Abuse Centre

066 7123122
Freephone 1800 633 333

An Garda Síochána

Freephone 112 or 999

Women’s Aid Freephone

1800 341900 (24 hours)

It can be hard to know what to do

Learn how to help yourself, a friend or family member if experiencing abuse of any kind. Know the signs!

 

Controlling in any way to do with money, passwords, knowing your location, reading your phone messages, listening to phone calls, who you spend time with.

Manipulative in the person’s privacy and boundaries. Isolating them from their friends and family.

Jealous if anyone else talks to the individual’s partner or appears possessive over their partner.

Quickly to fly into a fit of rage over the smallest of things.

Aggressive and physically grabs their partner or hurts them.

Vocally putting them down all the time and making them feel worthless.

You’re not alone

It is believed that one in four family units in Ireland today, suffer from domestic violence. This includes emotional, psychological, physical and sexual abuse.

Here's a guide on what to do if you or someone you know is in trouble.

Check in on them

Talk to them in person

Ask them about their relationship

Speak to someone else they are close to

Point out unhealthy behaviours

Be patient if they deny it

Don’t bring it up with their partner

Agree on a code word to use if they are in danger

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